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Hey everyone, I’m Nicole, Co-founder of LoveActually.ai. This product was born out of a very personal moment: staring at a screen of 'Read' receipts and realizing that modern dating algorithms are optimized for engagement, not connection. As a former 'swiping survivor,' I knew we needed something different—an AI that actually understands who we are. Our team of psychologists spent months training our AI matchmaker on data from 100,000 successful matches. We’ve moved beyond static MBTI labels to create a Living Psychological Profile. Our core breakthrough is our Memory Architecture, and we remember your values, your boundaries, and your communication style to ensure every match is grounded in science, not just a lucky swipe. Can’t wait to hear your feedback on LoveActually.ai! 😼

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29d ago

Engineering "Tough Love": The Prompt Stack behind Astute Kitty.

Most AI assistants are too "nice."

If you ask ChatGPT for dating advice, it gives you a polite, generic list of tips that rarely works in the real world.

For LoveActually.ai, we had a different challenge:
How do we engineer an AI to be brutally honest without breaking its RLHF safety rails?

Enter Astute Kitty. We built her personality stack using:

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1mo ago

Simulation Log: I let a "Toxic" Agent date a "Therapist" Agent for 24 hours. Here is the chat log.

I was tired of testing my dating app manually. So, I automated it.

I set up a loop between our two distinct AI personalities:

Astute Kitty (The Strategist): Logic-driven, high critical thinking, slightly mean.
Loving Kitty (The Companion): High empathy, supportive, long-term memory enabled.

I gave them one prompt: "Get to know each other and decide if you want a second date."

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1mo ago

Let's play a game: Drop your "go-to" opening line, and my AI Agents will fight over it.

"Hey." "How are you?" "Nice pics."

We all know these are terrible openers, yet 80% of dating app data shows people still use them.

We built a dual-agent system for our app:
Astute Kitty: The mean, logic-driven strategist.
Loving Kitty: The supportive, emotional safety net.